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TOUCHY/FEELY intimacy card game — A Date & Connection Game
TOUCHY/FEELY intimacy card game is a guided talk + touch experience that helps couples — and adults of all relationship stages — move from surface-level conversation into real, felt connection. At your pace. On your terms.
How to play
- Choose one of the four levels based on the players’ comfort, then draw a card.
- The player who drew the card answers its question.
- The other players rate how vulnerable the answer was from 1 to 5: 1 is closed off; 5 is revealing.
- Average those ratings and use the Emotional Conversion Card to find the corresponding physical action.
- Together, choose one of the erogenous zones listed at the bottom of the drawn card.
- The person who answered performs the action with the players who rated, adapting the touch to each relationship and the setting. Everyone involved must want the touch; anyone can decline or stop.
Ask. Agree. Adjust. Or skip. You’re always in control of the pace.
Who it’s for
Most of us have more to say but just don’t know how to start.
- Icebreakers, daters, vibe check
- Couples who want to feel closer — new or long-term
- Partners tired of repeating the same conversations
- People rebuilding communication, trust, or emotional closeness
- Therapists, coaches, and facilitators guiding connection-focused work
- Individuals using prompts for journaling, self-reflection, or meditation
What’s included
- Branded felt travel bag
- Branded game box with 4-part divider
- 80 conversation and prompt cards across 4 Levels
- The Emotional Conversion Card
Perfect for
- Date nights at home or on the road
- Anniversaries, birthdays, and meaningful gifts
- Relationship check-ins or resets
- Hotel stays and couples travel
- Restaurant or bar dates — it travels well
- Therapeutic and facilitated relationship settings
Why it’s different
Most conversation card games stop at talking. TOUCHY/FEELY goes further — without forcing anything.
- Guided prompts that build naturally from light to deeper
- A clear structure so you’re never guessing what to say or do next
- Optional touch woven in through consent — not expectation
Frequently asked questions
Is touch required to play?
No. Touch prompts are always optional. You can play TOUCHY/FEELY using only the talk prompts and have a full, meaningful experience. The Emotional Conversion Card gives both players the ability to redirect or skip anything at any moment.
What’s the Emotional Conversion Card?
It’s a fifth card that lives in every hand. You use it to pause the game, choose a different type of connection, or go deeper — based on what both players agree feels right in the moment. It keeps both people in control throughout the experience.
How long does a game take?
As long as you want. Most couples play for 30–90 minutes. You can play through a full Level in one session or stretch the game across multiple date nights. There’s no timer and no wrong pace.
Is it appropriate for a first date?
Yes — start with Level 1. Level 1 prompts are light, playful, and designed to open conversation without pressure. Many people use TOUCHY/FEELY on early dates because it removes the awkwardness of figuring out what to say.
Can therapists and coaches use this in sessions?
Yes. TOUCHY/FEELY is used in couples therapy, relationship coaching, and group facilitation settings. The Level Question Cards 1–4 can be used progressively with clients, and The Emotional Conversion Card functions as a built-in consent and self-regulation tool.
Is the game appropriate for all orientations and relationship types?
Yes. TOUCHY/FEELY is designed to be inclusive of all relationship types, orientations, and partnership structures. The language on all 80 cards is intentionally neutral and broadly applicable.
What if we’ve been together a long time — will we already know the answers?
That’s the most common thing people say before they play — and almost always the first thing they take back. TOUCHY/FEELY is designed to surface things that don’t usually come up in daily conversation. Long-term couples consistently report it opens something new.
Ready to feel closer?
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