TOUCHY/FEELY for Therapists — Coaches & Wellness Professionals

TOUCHY/FEELY intimacy card game
For Professionals

A Tool That Meets
Clients Where They Are.

TOUCHY/FEELY bridges the clinical and the felt — a structured, comfort-led tool designed for couples therapy, coaching, and facilitated wellness settings.

4 LevelsQuestion card sets
80 CardsTotal in the deck
AASECTAbstract presented
Comfort-LedTouch always optional
TOUCHY/FEELY in use

Safe to introduce. Structured to go where conversation alone can’t.

TOUCHY/FEELY intimacy card game is used in therapy practice, couples coaching, and group facilitation settings. Non-clinical language reduces resistance, the progressive structure matches therapeutic pacing, and the built-in comfort tool keeps every participant in control of their own experience.

It doesn’t feel like therapy. That’s precisely why it opens doors therapy can’t always reach on its own.

The Level Question Cards — Levels 1–4

Each Level can be used independently in a session, making the deck adaptable to your client’s readiness and therapeutic goals.

1Light
Accessible openers. Ideal for new clients or early sessions to build safety and rapport.
2Open
Invites honest reflection on real experiences, preferences, and relational needs.
3Deep
Explores values, attachment, and what genuine intimacy means to each person.
4Intimate
Felt connection at the deepest level. Used with established client readiness and comfort.
The Emotional
Conversion Card

Your built-in comfort and pacing tool.

Every hand includes The Emotional Conversion Card — allowing either participant to pause, redirect, or go deeper at any moment. In session, it functions as a structured self-regulation tool, giving clients language and permission to manage their own comfort without breaking the relational flow.

Clinical & Coaching Use Cases

Couples Therapy

Level 1–2 cards as session warm-ups or take-home exercises. Level 3–4 for deeper work around intimacy, vulnerability, and relational repair.

Relationship Coaching

Moves clients from talking about connection to practicing it in real time — with a felt, structured experience they can replicate at home.

Group Facilitation

Level 1–2 cards for group therapy settings to build emotional safety and shared language around connection.

Wellness & Retreat Programming

Integrated into couples retreats and mindfulness workshops as a structured, experience-based connection tool.

Intake & Rapport Building

Level 1 cards reduce clinical distance quickly — a warm, low-stakes opening for new client relationships.

Between-Session Homework

Structured at-home connection practice for couples. Each play builds on the last and creates continuity across sessions.

Why Practitioners Choose TOUCHY/FEELY

Comfort is structurally embedded — The Emotional Conversion Card gives clients a natural, non-verbal boundary and redirection tool in every session
Non-clinical language reduces resistance and defensive responses — it feels like play, not process
Progressive structure (Levels 1–4) mirrors therapeutic pacing and meets clients exactly where they are, without skipping ahead
Touch is always optional — inclusive of all orientations, relationship structures, and cultural backgrounds
Compact and portable — fits into a client bag, office drawer, or session supply kit
Flexible across modalities — used effectively with individuals, couples, and small groups without modification
TOUCHY/FEELY intimacy card game

Request a Sample or Professional Pricing.

We offer professional pricing for therapists and coaches ordering for practice use. Sample requests and facilitator resources available on inquiry.

Request Info for Professionals →connect@touchyfeelygame.com

Who is Candace?

Candace Johnson is an intimacy + love coach, creator of the TOUCHY/FEELY intimacy card game, and a facilitator of connection-forward communication.

Her work centers emotional safety, nervous-system awareness, and honest conversation—helping people feel more grounded in themselves and more connected in their relationships. Through coaching, guided play, media conversations, and live events, Candace creates spaces where communication feels clearer, consent feels natural, and intimacy feels mutual.

The path to pleasure.

The Pleasure Journal is where curiosity meets clarity, offering thoughtful writing on connection, communication, emotional safety, and embodied intimacy. Pleasure doesn’t start with touch — it starts with understanding.

Play your feelings.

Turn real conversations into deeper connection. TOUCHY/FEELY guides you through talk, touch and emotional awareness—so intimacy feels natural, mutual, and grounded.

Play together, in real life.

Experience TOUCHY/FEELY beyond the deck. Join our live events, workshops, and pop-ups designed to build connection, spark conversation, and create meaningful moments—together.